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a family in turmoil
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:34 |
Wonder if you kind peeps could help |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:35 |
What is her problem would be my question to my son |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:37 |
Ask that !!! got told they arent doing anything til 6 months before ! |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:43 |
Totally agree with every word you have said and the conclusion you have come to !! |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:45 |
So maybe a year plus in advance they havent decided on the nitty gritty of the event . |
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BarbinSGlos | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:45 |
Are they a young couple and their first marriage ? |
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Merlin | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:49 |
Perhaps in this situation you should write your son and his future Bride what the problem is?i/e why are you being left in the dark over this,arrangements have to be made and if needed, you would like to give help(Financial etc) meybe they will then tell you,if not , just leave them to it.**M**. |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:51 |
They are two very intelligent people .....and first marriage yes |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 14:54 |
We think the problem is her mother ...she is far to close to her mummy and this will distroy my sons and her marriage as my son will feel pushed out in the end |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:00 |
Well they are being really naive if they think they can book good wedding venues 6 months in advance, Good venues sometimes are booked 2 years in advance . |
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Merlin | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:03 |
Surely your Son has got a mind of his own,If she wants this before they are wed and he agrees, Their future looks bleak .**M**. :-( Seems to me its all about what she wants and nothing or no one else counts. |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:03 |
Thank you ...you advice seems cruel but its what my other children are saying so I have to say the cruel feels are because I,m the mum and need to "man up" and sit back and watch |
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Island | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:04 |
Cut her some slack. |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:06 |
Merlin ......my other 3 are saying the same |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:07 |
Island ...............Why? |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:12 |
Playing Devil's advocate here - perhaps your son's fianceé has very little to do with the marriage arrangements!! |
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wisechild | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:21 |
When my older daughter got married 18 months ago, she mentioned it to me in passing in a phone call & informed me that my OH & I were not invited because her father & his wife were going & she didn´t want an "atmosphere". |
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AnninGlos | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:27 |
I think all you can do is let your son know that you are willing to help if necessary (as Maggie says you could also write to her Mother). Say you will need to know the dress code if you feel that you don't. I think it used to be that the grooms family paid for taxis and flowers but I don't think the old ways hold any more. Often young couples seem to pay for themselves. |
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Kay???? | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:39 |
At this stage its over a year to go,,,,,,,,,the grooms family do very little at this time,,,,,,the main things are booked,,, |
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Dawnieher3headaches | Report | 6 Apr 2014 15:58 |
Lissy is getting married in October and we didnt book anything til Feb invites still not gone out as still over 6 months away. Im putting on ivites about special diet so maybe they will do same as you dont know til numbers come in how many will need something different. |
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