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Granny & Granddad annexe
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Phyll | Report | 22 Apr 2014 20:04 |
What are your thoughts on having an annexe on daughter and son-in-laws house please |
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KittytheLearnerCook | Report | 22 Apr 2014 20:14 |
It depends how separate you are from the rest of the family. |
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Phyll | Report | 22 Apr 2014 21:07 |
Thank you for your comments Kitty. IF we go ahead we will have our own shower room, bedroom, aitting room and kitchen plus share of a huge conservatory. LIKE i SAY THOUGH IT;S A BIG if. |
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KittytheLearnerCook | Report | 22 Apr 2014 21:14 |
They are working on having their own front door now, they share a landline which can be a bit of a pain sometimes, as my uncle does love a long chat :-D |
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Mistycat | Report | 22 Apr 2014 22:18 |
When my son and daughter in law had their house built they did it with a completely self contained annexe ( Own front door and utility bills, 2 bed 2 bath, sitting room, kitchen/dining room with utility room) so either myself or daughter in law's mum (20 yrs older than me) can live there independently.....Not sure how I feel about to be honest....I do like my independence...120 miles away!!! |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 23 Apr 2014 04:26 |
Mistycat, I think it would be very reassuring to have somewhere waiting if you need it, but enjoy your independence while you can. Probably the other mum might need it first, hopefully things will work out right so you don't end up having to share it with her lol |
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Susan-nz | Report | 23 Apr 2014 07:29 |
Hi Phyll, |
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Phyll | Report | 24 Apr 2014 10:10 |
Sorry for delay in getting back to you all but I thank you for your thoughts and comments. Still a lot of thought going into this and I will let you know what we decide to do eventually. |
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DIZZI | Report | 26 Apr 2014 09:40 |
WHAT HAPPENS IF DAUGHTER MOVES,WILL YOU BE HOMELESS. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 26 Apr 2014 09:46 |
I've 'lent' (I'm a realist!) my youngest some money for a deposit on a house - with the (joking) proviso that when they sell and upgrade, the new house will have to include a granny annexe. She agreed!!! |
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Phyll | Report | 26 Apr 2014 13:14 |
Good point Dizzi but we are going to hang on to our bungalow and let it out so it will give us a bit of safety should that happen. |
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Annx | Report | 26 Apr 2014 15:21 |
That's a very sensible idea to let out your bungalow so you have a plan B Phyll. I know of 3 people where it didn't work out I'm afraid and I think it's because we all change as we get older. A work colleague took in an elderly aunt from over 100 miles away rather than see her go into a home and because she'd been so good to her in the past. A few years later she said she wouldn't have done it again. The aunt didn't have her own annexe though so that didn't help. The aunt became more difficult as she got older, was lonely while everyone was working and my colleague had a lot of worry when she had to leave her. |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 27 Apr 2014 08:06 |
I know of someone who was persueded to sell her home and invest the money with family in a larger house where she would have her own bedroom and sitting room an shower room . |
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