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im trying to find my dads family, my father now passed away 3rd nov 1990 aged 53 then, his name was john trevor sullivan born on 1st april 1937 my uncle was called victor sullivan, they also have a sister called margaret my grandad was called ben whom served in one of the wars.he was married to vera sterling!? i think i know both have passed. my grandad ben lived in wales or had contacts in wales.my dad had an aunt called amy and also there was a aunt nell? victor had a motor bike accident which left him with a scar on his forehead, if i can remember. my dad john was a twin but the twin brother richard died at birth! please anyone help me as my father has been dead now for nearly 13yrs and im 26yrs old and have no contact with my fathers family. i also have a brother also called john trevor! my dad use to live in abbeywood,orpinton,peckham. please help as i need to know about my dads and my family so i can have some input. im now married so my surname is now upton not sullivan.please email me [email protected] thanksxxxx