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just phoned and told me his sister my grandaughter has split up with her boyfriend they had bought house together but she staying with afriend,shes only 19 but shes very trusting dos,nt see no wrong in people i worry about her that she may go back to live with her mother and that i dont want,otherwise im going to fall out with her which i dont want to do but how can you go and live with someone who tells you there dying from cancer and got two yrs to live when they dont have it this is realy getting uptight
Dutchxx

Hi Dutch

You mean your daughter/inlaw told your grandaughter she had cancer..and it was a lie?

Oh dutch, what a shame........I know when family matters blow, you can't help but worry.......but it will all turn out OK, I am sure......x sally

my daughter told her daughter which was alie as some time ago she was in hospital i rang to ask how she was and i said to the sister it must be the cancer and she said what cancer,so i told my g,children they had aright to no so g,daughter ask the docter and he said no,well i dont speak to my daughter for nearly 6yrs i think and dont want anything to do with her for what she put my grandson thru as well which i wont go into
Dutch

Sorry to hear that dutch, cant be easy for you.

Marion

its not Mary ive seen how shes hurt my g,children not hitting them nothing like that,but telling them things my g,son is just turned 18 and shes messed his life up and that of his other grandma
Dutch

How terrible Dutch to tell your children that....
Well at least they have you, and hopefully your grand daughter will come to you..

xx

just wish i was,nt so far from them g,son ask when you coming over so i can give you big kiss it was thank you for the money i sent for his birthday
Dutchx

thats terrible dutch i dont know how someone could do that my heart goes out to you take care big(((((hug)))) kerryx

Hi Dutch, my ex son in law pulled such a stunt also, told the kids, and us, that his father had brain cancer and had 6 months, that was to explain his supposed change in temperment (only towards his son). Everyone was anxious, I was doubtful from the start, of course he didn't have a tumour. After his son left his family, the father did develop prostate cancer and has had successful treatment thus far. But it was handled so much better that nobody became too agitated.
I sometimes think this is just a cry for attention, in my ex s-i-l's case I am sure of it. But that cry can wreak havoc to those around them and have long-lasting effects. Who will ever believe anything they say again?
Hugs to you and your granddaughter,
Mary

What is the matter with these people??

God knows it is not something you would want to bring on yourself.
Do they even think about KARMA?

Mary and Joyce, that is so awful, but Joyce... if your girl goes back to her mother.
DO NOT stop talking to her, she may need you one day.
Good luck.
Deanna XX

Hi Dutch

Don't usually come on General. That's awful situation, agree with Deanna - just always be there for your granddaughter like you so obviously have been all her life.

You sound like such a loving grandmother.

(((hugs))) xxx

thank you for your support rach is my g,daughter as you know but shes also my daughters eldest girl ive had her sice she was 3mths old and for the past ten yrs shes never spoke to her her mother her children my g,granchildren think im rachs mother i try to tell them im her nan but when there young you cant explain,but rach stands at same bus stop with her children and her mother is there as well,dosnt she relize shes missed out on seeing her g,children they dont even no here
Dutchxx