General Chat

Hi Everyone.
Just got in ...

DO NOT PUT COTTON BUDS IN YOUR EARS....!!!

I have just been to the A&E with my dad as he complained that his ear was hurting and he could not hear very well .
So took him to the doctors then a referell to A&E suggested a hovering out of his ear and yes there it was Cotton Buds tips (three of them )all clogged up in his ear canal .....but we were there nearly 4 hrs and the ended up the ENT ward for the hovering out job..
Doctor said throw cotton buds in the bin ....

So there ....LOL

Now drinking a lovely glass of wine with my spaghetti Bolls,

Shelly my grandson wanted to watch that program , but my son put a stop to that ... My Son thinks he knows too much already ...LOL

sex education thats what 3 of mine was whating last nite
i was trying to get 13 year old in bed and daughter was saying let him just finninsh watching his program.

i couldent be bother to watch it so left them to it

Oh Rita,I do hope the doctor can sort you out tommorrow. It saddens me
that you are feeling so down. But my love, you have had so much on your plate lately,what with the worry of your son in law,and your own health problems. It's no surprise that those blessed kids have been getting on your nerves. I hate to say it, but there are a lot of youngsters,who have no respect for other people. Not all are like it I hasten to add,but they are so rare.
I know of the programme you were talking about. No wonder they put it on at 10.pm last night. The children get sex education at school these days,but the questions they were asking last night,are not covered by the school curriculum. I suppose they have got to learn somehow, but most of us had to learn the hard way,at the school of hard knocks. And it never did us any harm I suppose.
Way back when I was young, the only sex education we got,was learnt by listening to others talking in the girls toilets.
I know that when I started work,a girl I worked with,who was older than me
thought that you could get pregnant by kissing a boy.LOL

Shelly thank you for the pm NO IT IS NOT THE SAME FAMILY
I knew my Aunty and Uncle well use to visit them when they lived in Wealdstone in the 40's she was Aunty May and my Uncle was Sid although his name was really cyril.they did have a large family 8 in all 5 boys and 3 girls.
when aunty May died my uncle married again Gerty .
thank you for letting me know . I wonder if they were related to me. ?perhaps they were one of the brothers children?

I hope you all had a good day today. it has got very warm now. I have just eaten a salad .and had a cup of tea.
nothing on TV tonight that I want to see so I will look at a DVD.

Did you see that sex programe for children last night ?I thought it was too expliicit. who want to see loads of hanging all shapes and sizes.
The girls mothers knew their daughters were having sex and only 14 and 15 year olds and did not seem to mind no wonder so many very young girls are having babies.when their parents treat it as normal.
I watched it as I wanted to see what they would show them. I turned it off later.when I heard the mothers.


Rita

rita i sent you a pm

marilyn i was out early cos i had work
thought you mite of gust that lol

rita i fagerly remember a lee family there was a lot of children and lived in the next street to me from were i lived as a small child i can even remember the mothers name and one of the children i want put there names on the boards but i can pm it to you if you want me to i now the name of the street thay lived in as well now you say one was born 1966 and i was born 1963 and this lee family had children younger than me if i remember rightly

now woundering if your lee family is the samre one as i new

Thank you jean I am sure once I get these problem sorted I will rest easier.

It is not like me to feel so down. but I think it is the pressure I have been under for the last few months.
perhaps the sea air will blow my blues away.?

Love Rita

Hello Rita, have just read your thread, am so sorry you are not feeling too well, and I do hope the estate manager can sort out the problem of the kids and ball games, it is no fun having to listen to a ball banging against your wall is it.
Hope your appointment with the other Doctor gets you some help.
Sometimes I think it isn't much fun getting older.

Enjoy your holiday, relax and leave your worries behind you.

Jean xx

well you wont have to wait in queues for the plane if your going to Devon.
I am going to Dorset I have not been there since I was a child and that was along time ago.
My sister booked it all in March or April she looked for a Hotel on The sea front. we go by train on the 16th I really need this seaside break.
one of my Granddaughters Georgia lives in Christchurch in Dorset so I will be able to see her while I am down there she works during the week so l shall see her at the weekend.
My sister said we can pop over to Gernsey while we are there on a day trip.
I dont need my passport Lol.


I have this last few weeks felt really low all the worry of the kids with their foot balls and this doctor at the hospital keeps changing my perscription as you know. so I get uptight when I need to reorder my medication. I only hope the Doctor tomorrow will be able to help me get it sorted.

I was going through my family tree and my cousin said that we are related to Robert Lee the footballer so I am going to try and find if she is right because his father should be my cousin Charlie Lee this Robert was born in 1966 in London I think it is Plaistow London so that would be about right. I had him down as ours but need to double check it too make sure.. my cousin Charlie and I have not seen each other for over 40 years.

see you later

Rita
x

Oh Rita,

You poor darling ....you must have been at your lowest this morning.
Now that you are seeing this other doctor maybe the burden of your appointments will fade.....Chin up as you are going away soon and that will give you a big boost and you will forget about all your problems at least have a rest from them !!
About time some of the other residents did some complaining Rita ,as you seem to be the only one , let them get involved for a bit .

Now go and lie down.....have a stiff Brandy or Whiskey and fall asleep ...until tea time......then do it again until bed time, then if you cant sleep at bed time...... be a night Owl on lappy ... all night LOL mind you there are some funny peeps on here at night !!!

Edit,....going to North Devon ...

Marilyn where are you off to this time then next week ?
I shall be going away next friday week for 8 days with my sister I am looking forward to that I am getting deppressed with all these problems cropping up. I should not be there are poeple worse off then me.

I rang the bell of the Estate Manager this morning to tell her the wood that surround the heavy glass in our outside safety door had dropped off. I said the glass is stuck in but you need to put a notice up if people come and go in to our hallway the glass might come lose and someone might get hurt. she knocked afterwards and said a man is coming to do it next week he cannot come this week. she stuck some tape on it. in the meantime.
She told me she had explained to the Aera Estate Manager about the problem with the Kids and she is wrtiting to Their Housing Trust about it it appears they are rent payers and The Hosuing Trust own the houses..
other than that they can do nothing. I am not allowed to take their ball off them as I will get a summons for stealing their property.
I told her I was getting intouch with the community police and also going to make an appointment with CAB. so I will wait and see what happens first with the letter.

I had my blood test done and I had the surgery nurse do it she told me I did not look well ? I told her all my problems and that I could not get an appointment to see my GP as he was away from tomorrow till the end of the month.
she gave me a cuddle and said you dont have to go to that hospital you do know that you can cancel seeing that doctor.
she went outside to have a word with the women at the desk and came b ack she had made me an appointment with another Doctor who I go to for tomorrow morning at 9 'olock to sort it all out.
I like and idiot stood there crying. it had all gotten to me. I dont know what people waiting to see the other doctors thought.

Rita

Hi All,

I have been busy cleaning my house after Pete has sanded down all my wall after filling in holes from the old doors , now its smelling horrible as he has just varnished them all.


~~~~~~~~~ Rita ,Jean, Shelly, Linda.

Thanks for the tea Shelly......where are you going so early in the morning ?

Its lovely & sunny here as well , I'm going away the weekend.so hope it stay's sunny .

Linda there is one way of getting off not doing Jury service ...!!!!

morning all

see no one made the tea (_)? (_)? (_)? (_)?|_||_|

nether mind iv made it

im out all day as well have to go soon

the weather her looks as its going to be nice all day as the sun is shining

going now see you all later

Morning Jean and Linda

Lovely day here it is quiet warm and the sky is a lovely blue feel like getting my water colours out and painting the scene.
I have the Doctor for my usual Warfarin blood level.

I hope you all have a good day.

Linda I have been called twice for the jury service once when I lived in Ealing but they let me off

The next time I was going out of England on a business trip so missed that as well.
Then I was too old. shame

My husband was let off once as well due to business.

see you later.

Come on get up girls show a leg get out of bed.

Rita

Morning Jean
You were early this morning
Hope everyone has a good day.
A little overcast first thing here but should be a nice day.

Have to go and pay some bills this morning, before hubby goes to work.
A friend coming for tea and a chat this afternoon.
Hubby will be home just before midnight for the next 7 days.

Oh he had a rotten bit of mail yesterday............. he has been called for jury service !!! Not too happy with that.

Well off to do a walk, wonder if hubby will come with me?


Linda :o) XxX

Morning, is there anyone here?
Hope you all have a good day whatever you will
be doing.
Sounds as though you had a great time yesterday Linda.
Just going to put some washing out as it looks like being a sunny, warm day, then will have a cuppa before I take a trip into town.
Take care everyone and enjoy your day.
Jean xx

marilyn iv only just watch BB had to watch the pluss channel
glad scabby has gone and i bet the other one dont go

Hi there.
Marilyn yes Shabby has gone,I just hope that Ben is up for eviction this week. I know a lot of people like him,but he is a proper waste of space.
He won't do anything to help the others in the house,and the only person he cares about is himself.
I am not sure that Shabby's mate will go though. Well if she does,I bet her boyfriend won't know where she is for a couple of days. LOL she will be with Shabby, holed up somewhere.

Hi Linda. It sounds like you all had a lovely day out. It seems to me that
all our parents to become a bit grumpy,as they get older. I know my mum did. There were days when I could do no right,where as my brother could get away with murder. Still thats life I suppose, I just hope I don't treat my
children like that when I get old. LOL ( says she who is nearly as old as Methusela (sp) )

Hi Linda,


But your gone now.....

Still no one to talk to ,so going to bed now and sulk !!!!!!!!!