General Chat

Just had the result of the inquest. It was cot death not suffocation. Hopefully that will give Emma some comfort that it was not her fault.

Ann, I wasn't around much last October so didn't know about this. I'm sorry to hear about Ajay. My condolences to all the family, especially to Emma.

I remember Ann,
I hope the result give's her some peace of mind.

Hoping that it gives Emma some release from the guilt, there is nothing she could of done and she didnt cause his death.

d x

I too hope that the result of the inquest gives Emma a little comfort .

I remember when you first posted the sad news Ann and I have thought of Emma from time to time and wondered how she has coped but not liked to ask .

Amanda

I.m glad that cot death was the finding of tthe inquest.
It is still so sad,but a comfort to know that there is no blame.
This happened to one of my daughter's identical twins,20 years ago now,and the guilt still remained even though he was in one end of the twin pram and they'd been out to celebrate their elder brother's 7th birthday.
I hope Emma can find some comfort.He will never be forgotten.

Brenda x

Dear Ann - my heart still goes out to Emma, the shock and pain is so difficult, I hope the verdict will give her some peace now.
(((((HUGS)))))
Mary

She is coping fairly well. She couldn't make herself move back to her flat so she is living in a hostel just round the corner from her Mum. It is a bit stressful for he as her older sister is pregnant. But I think she is pleased for he as Leila had a late miscarriage with her fist baby (she, Leila was only 18 then too.)

Hello Ann
l am sorry about this l did'nt know about it. Is Emma your granddaughter?
l hope the results make it easier for her to deal with, although she has still lost Ajay she can stop blaning herself, hopefully.

((((HUGS)))) to Emma and all of you

jude x

Yes Ann. I do remember the loss of poor little Ajay.

It is sad that Emma has had to wait this long to find out why she lost her precious baby, but I hope this will help her to move on, and wish her well for the future, and also her sister Leila.

Oh Ann

I,m so sorry about the results but in a way its good to know what happened and now Emma knows she did all she could as a mum ....

Emma this is not easy for any of your family but the fun and laughted you had with your son is still in your heart and will stay forever

I do remember Ann....................it will be a small comfort to her to know that it wasn't her fault.

Bless her heart

Jude Emma is my Gt Niece. Ajay was my sister's Gt grandson, my Gt Gt nephew. I had not met him as they live in London but had seen photos and he was gorgeous, he was 6 months old.