General Chat

Just off to bed. No rain but temp has dropped to 15 degrees.

Very muggy here indoors and we've just had a good steady shower of rain .

No rain here it seems to avoid us.

Mel you had 25 good years so that is great. Those sort of dreams can be very upsetting when you wake.

Not sure what the temperature is now but it still feels warm. It is still very windy though with some strong gusts.

Its been raining here that fine rain just as I was ging to corn the chickens the girls must have thought I forgot them. I think they are starting to moult with allt he hot weather we've been having and are not eating their pellets but wll always eat the corn they have at night.


O vera what are the men like!!!! I would no t have let my man out on the window ledge at 88. there again mine would have done something like that being a retired firefighter. He told me once about going up that longest ladder firemen use and how it uesed to sway quite a bit even in the slightest breeze. It made my knees and legs go funny just hearing about it. I did learn one thing from oh though about heights. WE sometimes park right up the top of the carpark in Barnstaple and going down the stairs you could see right over the rooves of the houses and building and when I looked over I felt like I was going to fall. He told me to turn sideways on and look over and that seemed ok.

I dreamt about oh last night and it was a bit upsetting seeing him in his prime again. I can't beleive it will be three years this coming August 12th. I only had him for 25 years and 10 days and I enjoyed ever minuet.

It's odd how the avatars either disappear, but not always all of them and sometimes mine are an elongated shape.

Yes Mandy, I thought it shows some pickers can't look at the dates. They've already refunded me though so I shall have two free bottles. They also sent a sub for cress they didn't have. I had to smile as I already had a pack of small cucumbers on my order and the sub they sent for the cress was a whole cucumber! I must have puffier eyes than I thought. :-D It's a good idea to use the water for the garden, but men don't listen to us do they. I've been using the water from my hot water bottle and where the hose was leaking at the tap we put a humper under it and used the water we collected in that for watering too.

Yes I ignored it and it is back.

I can see it too but it did that a couple of weeks ago all I could see was Ann's.

I now went to the bin and felt a spit of rain so fingers crossed we get a little to save watering later .

Ann thats very naughty sending them with such a close date no one would drink 12 that's quick ,they must have seen they are one a day .

Are you back AnnG? I can see your avatar.

I wonder what has happened to my avatar. I am blank!!!

We have aluminium ladders at the side of the bungalow but don't know what to do with them either AnnG. I think it is three ladders that extend that OH had and brought here with him. I had similar at my old house, chained to a downpipe, but the key was lost so I left them when I moved here.

The food just arrived 15 minutes early and the driver seemed a bit put out at leaving the crates for us to empty and taking the previous crates with him. We have always done it like this and emptied the crates ourselves so the driver could be on his way and not have to wait and be held up for his next delivery. In fact a couple of times they have left the crates on the doorstep, took the empty ones and driven off before I could get to the door. This driver seemed to suggest they have always had to wait for the crates to be emptied because of people stealing them! He did leave them for us though and just took the ones away from the previous delivery we leave by the door. I was annoyed they sent a pack of 12 little one a day bottles of actimel drinks that expire in just two days time!

Well that is one thing T would never have done Vera, he didn't like heights or ladders after once when in his late 20s he had a work colleadue in the navy who, when locked out of their house the man decided to go up a ladder and get in an open small window. he fell and died from his injuries. The strange thing was, when we moved here Xerox paid a certain amount to allow for resettlement. It covered all sorts including ladders and he bought a huge set of ladders long enough to reach the rook. Only the smallest of the three has ever been reluctantly used by T and the two long ones are still fixed along the side of the house. I have no idea what to do with them.

Anyway I am glad that stressful job has been done for you. Maybe he will stop doing stressful (for you) things soon when he grows up out of his pseudo teens. :-D :-D

Oh Vera I see it is actually still very hot where you are. You have a very intrepid OH! Whatever next? I can see his next birthday present being an abseiling harness! I could imagine you both flying out of the window with you clutching his legs, hopefully with his trousers staying put with the strain. I think I would have tied him to the bed with knotted sheets (Oh that sounds a bit kinky!)

Well the carvery wasn't as good as the last one, but we had a big helping of Turkey this time which was nice.

Mel I started watching the Puzzle lady last night. I thought it a bit strange too, but fell asleep watching it, so will try and watch the rest tonight, unless it sends me to sleep again.

Oh Vera I see it is actually still very hot where you are. You have a very intrepid OH! Whatever next? I can see his next birthday present being an abseiling harness! I could imagine you both flying out of the window with you clutching his legs, hopefully with his trousers staying put with the strain. I think I would have tied him to the bed with knotted sheets (Oh that sounds a bit kinky!)

Well the carvery wasn't as good as the last one, but we had a big helping of Turkey this time which was nice.

Mel I started watching the Puzzle lady last night. I thought it a bit strange too, but fell asleep watching it, so will try and watch the rest tonight, unless it sends me to sleep again.

I can imagine how you feel AnnG and I am very aware of how fortunate we are to still be together. I've had several friends and acquaintances widowed in their 40s and 50s and, of course, your daughter and mine both lost their partners at far too young an age so I do count my blessings. It's because I want to keep OH around longer that I sometimes get a bit cross with him when he thinks he can still clamber about like a youngster. Still, I suppose his Can Do attitude is better than a Can't Do one.

The very first time we asked our builder/handyman to do some work for us he was very honest and told us his business insurance will not let him work at height so no climbing up long ladders etc. That wasn't a problem as the job we had then and the work he has just done for us could be done with his feet on terra firma.Today OH noticed there was a little bit of the wall abutting my bedroom window that was just showing the same problem, though not badly. He decided that he would deal with it himself. I pointed out that we got rid of our long ladders when we moved here so how did he plan on doing it. The answer was........wait for it........ He would kneel on the window sill of my UPSTAIRS bedroom window, lean right out and stretch to reach the bit of wall that needed repair but it would be OK because he would hang on to the window frame inside the room with his left hand. I am sure you can imagine that all I could see in my mind's eye was my beloved tumbling out of the window and lying shattered on the ground below.

Words were said and we both got a little het up but eventually we reached a compromise. He would do it like that but with me up there with him and, as this was the least bad bit of wall we had seen, he wouldn't cut chunks out of the wall and fix in some galvanised gubbins and then render over it as has been done with the rest, but would simply rub the area away with emery paper and then paint over it with some galvanising gunge. With me in the bedroom with him he wouldn't have to keep swivelling about to reach pots, brushes etc. I could put them in his hand.

So a short while later found him kneeling on the window sill, leaning right out of the window with me hanging on to his legs for dear life. I don't know if I would have been able to hold him if he had slipped but I felt better clinging on to him. Thankfully it didn't take very long at all. The odd thing is that in his job he was often out on site at sewage works and sometimes his men had to go in to awkward places. They had a whole range of safety equipment and if he saw any man not wearing the full safety gear they were off site. He would not let them be endangered in any way.

Anyway, all's good and to lower my stress levels a bit I shoved on a hat and went out the garden but I only did a little weeding and some deadheading. I had to come in after 20 minutes because it was so hot. At the moment the temperature is still high but it has got very windy.

I hope you enjoyed your carvery Annx. Our lunch should be ready at 2 pm so I had better go and see what it is doing.

temp is all over the place here, back up to 21 now. I guess the wind is complicating things. Most of my boyfriends in my early teens were members of the church youth club and/or Sunday school and acceptable to my parents. My parents used to often advite the young RN apprentices for Sunday tea or after the after church walk for evening coffee. But T was in a new batch that came to the church so he had not been invited, actually my previous boyfriend was still invited for tea (Mum liked him). My parents loved being surrounded by the youth of the church and, being ex Navy my Dad got on well with the RN lads.
I have to say that after we were married T could do no wrong in their eyes, they loved him to bits.

Vera I am so envious of you still having your lovely OH at 88 years old still active and driving etc. I always thought we would be the same Never imagined T would be taken so early. (Although I was and still am gratefull that we were together as long as we were.)

Morning All,

I've been up since 7.00am, cleaned the fridge out ready for the food delivery later, went out and pulled a small humper full of weeds, focussing on the purple floered ones that have pods forming. Then I did a quick hoover around, sucking up a few of those spiders with long legs that make mess. Then a few jobs in the kitchen before emptying the top shelf of a wall cupboard in the ensuite. Now I've had enough for today so we are ordering a carvery between us for lunch.

It is still only 20 degrees here with a nice breeze blowing, hence my sudden activity and getting some jobs done. Still no rain here though. I'm glad it is cooler for us all now and that Vera had a better night's sleep.

We never forget those special dates do we AnnG? I bet T did look nice in his uniform too. Sadly I wasn't allowed to have any boys come to the house, even a new neighbour's son who helped make a run for my rabbit when I was aged 15 was told not to come round the house again and at 18 I was told by my father I was too young for boyfriends. At age 20 I was a bridesmaid at my cousin's wedding and dad went into an angry sulk when one of the boys there came and sat and chatted to me afterwards and mum had to have a word with him before he caused trouble with his temper. I remember the boy was called Ivan and afterwards my Aunt told mum he had been very taken with me and wanted to see me again. I already had first OH as my obviously secret fom my father boyfriend by then, but with how he was it would have been impossible to invite Ivan who lived in the next county to the house anyway. OH's mum met FIL when she was about 16 and he was 13 years older. They were married the day before she was 17 so you can imagine people's thoughts that it was a shotgun wedding and wouldn't last. OH was born 2 years later and they were married 64 years.

Glad you had a better night Vera.

OH has just set off for a walk with it being cooler, so I will get showered now.

Morning all,

I didn't have a bad night slept until 2 then through till about half past six I woke and the curtains were really blowing with the front and back windows open it was a wind tunnel ,there's still quite a strong wind and its hot in the sun already I think we should be about 26 here today .

Oh Vera what's he been up too now :-0
Colin nearly went a cropper out the back door I told him not to step out with the washing up water in the bowl put it in the big jug he didn't listen ,it's surprising how much water it saves yesterday we had three watering cans full .

Nothing planned for today were both tired with the heat so it will be a lazy Sunday.

You are getting cooler and we are getting hotter AnnG. It’s just a question of how hot. BBC app says it is 24 degrees and feels like 26 and the one on my iPad says it’s 22 and feels like 20. I haven’t got into the garden to find out myself how hot it is as I’ve been helping OH who is 88 but thinks he’s still 38. Don’t ask!! I’ll explain later.

and now it has dropped to 18. It can stop there.

Temp has gone down to 20 now and a quite strong wind has blown up. That was a big drop and I could feel it when I went out to water the tomatoes and Cynths baskets