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errr Dermot sorry but at the moment there is no gain from a mothers kiss to this child .....not to mention when I was born and mother and child went home Mother dear didn't realise that mother dear had left beloved child in the hospital until Aunt and Uncle wanted to see pmsl ...

I do love my mother ..I do love my mother I do love ...lol
Actually I do love my mother in a way that only a child can, I don't always like her and I often dislike her. Now that may sound harsh but mother in the past has done some rather horrible things that no loving mother should do to a teenage child or a growing adult.
Still as we are both older and *mellowed* (not sure about that bit) I now worry about her.
Over a year ago I was going frantic because I hadn't heard from her ..to eventually find out that her number had been changed and she forgot to tell me ! she still managed to make me feel guilty for not getting in touch !
Anyway last year as I was moving Mum decided she was also and needed me in the UK ..that could not happen apart from I have no valid passport and we had to buy a new car due to wild boar. Tony couldn't get more time off work for me to go to the UK . Since then I have tried to phone her over xmas and new year but not got a reply infact since Dec I haven't even got the answering machine. I presumed that she must have gone cruising again Jan to April (even tho' she said she wasn't)

NO she hadn't Mother dear phoned me yesterday
she hasn't moved
she hasn't changed her number again
she didn't bother to return my calls to depressed
..this from the person who phones me from an airport to fetch her because she has a headache ! or gets me out of work when she didn't feel well to tidy up because the doctor was coming....

BUT lo and behold Mother dear has after 6years finally decided to come to Spain to see me
in June for 3 weeks.
*gulps*
She is staying (with Saga) in a hotel 10K away thats cool
Now I am trying to explain why
OH can't get that time off work ...upps he is off for the week before !
I won't be able to just pop over there ..I don't drive and anyway we only have the 1 car
Why I can't just be dropped off in the morning and picked up at night ....I have 2 dogs for crying out loud

and even worse why can't I just book into the hotel for the 3 weeks that she is here .....I can share her room !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will only cost me 600 or so euros.

Oh boy last time me and Mum shared a room (5yrs ago) I thought about pushing her off the balcony after 3 days.
Why do I want to spend money on a holiday 10K away.
Who will look after the dogs

Boy oh Boy ....I do love my mother, I do love my mother, does anybody want to borrow a mother ................