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Poor kids, how worrying this must be for you and your daughter, and children must feel under pressure too. Hope things work out ok.


Lizx

Update
My daughter got his lawyer letter yesterday full of lies. The letter says that he is living in a 3 bedroom flat as this time he is not, we do not know were he is living .

Child service have been into school this week and had a very good outcome with the school and the new head. He also has asked for a DNA test on grandchild 1 but he does not wont to pay for it ,she told him her goes on the boys so he told her to get us to pay for it.

He phone to say he will go to the boys school and take them out of school. The school and the head have said no way are they going to let that happen , as he has never been to the school. One last attempt was made my her this week he was asked if he wont to go to the school Christmas play he did not turn up . Also he wont her to pay half of his layer fees.

Also forgot to say child service are still saying no way goes he get to see the boys and they also said that they will go to family court with her because we need to do what is right for the boys Grandchild 1 had a meeting with his friend as he call the women from c service just the 2 of them in the room and has told her he goes not wont to see him, he does not like his dad.

So we will jut have to take this one step at a time

Your daughter needs to laise with children services.each case is decided on many factors.If shes not happy with any CServices worker then rights for complaints can be took up.

Supervised contact maybe all he will get offered under court access rights,

Everything should be done for the best interests of the child/children.

He was given the chance to have supervised visit but turn that down . When they were together and he had boys when she was at work child1 how shall I put it he keep doing thing like falling down the stairs but it only happen when he had them. when they lived with us for a few month he get up one night to see to child1 who was crying in the morning children 1 had to be taken to A&E with a lump on his head did not have when he when to bed. When doctor at A&E asked him about it he got rude told him to mind it That is part of why children service do not wont him seeing them

The dad is the one who needs to seek access through a court.........so till that request is put in writing to your daughter from his soliciitor then she doesnt need to do anything at this stage.

She will at some point need to state her case via a family lawyer.......If there are circumstances why it would not be in the childrens best best interest for contact this can be put forward when a hearing date is set,,,,,,,this isnt in a public court room but takes place in private.

Supervised visits can be put in place. open access,or limited access.

Even with an access order in place a children can not be made to have contact if it doesnt want to of its own accord, and must not be pressured by the parent they live with.

It can take months to sort out.

All the costs may be awared to the father,if social services are already involved with the family then your daughter can seek their advise regarding a representive.

Hi Hope someone know about lawyers and children As some off you know from the pat on here my daughter and her children dad are not together. A month ago he moved back down to here from Scotland. He said he wont to see the boys but children 1 who Is 8 does not wont to see him children 2 who Is 5 said if he not going them I not, So he payed someone £660 00 to sit in a room with him and her and at the end of it this person said this will not get sorted here that they need to go to court that it in a nut shell. Yesterday grandchild 1 when to see his friend as he call this women at children services he has needs in school and out off school she told my daughter that he should not see the boys That a lot of the children problems are to do with him. Mu daughter has no money for a lawyer and she will not get help with one, we know this because in may she need a lawyer to help with benefit office and she earn to much. One of my friend has said as mad as this sound can the boys not get help in paying a lawyer to go to court for them. Dose anyone know anything about lawyer and children and paying them thank you