General Chat

Hi Jen I have read some of your threads through out the year. Some I have replied to some I have not, only because I have been at a loss for words to reply. People just dont know how to respond to people in mourning. I remember when my dad died it seemed that we were comforting other folks instead of them comforting us. sending you Happy New Year wishes GLoria

I am often around when no-one else is, so feel free to look in Jennifer and I will happily pm you if I can help. I feel for you so much, and would do anything to help you get through another hour. I know it is something many people say, but after nearly 33 years without my daughter growing up in my family, I can tell you that the pain does ease, you won't think it will, but it does, truly. It never goes completely but it becomes more bearable. I will always have Zoe in my heart and mind, she is never far from my thoughts but it becomes a little easier to think of her or talk of her, as each year goes by. Liz

Bless-Miss my Stephen so much-Bless him, bet he is up there watching me.

Jen, i'm here for you too. Stephen would not want you to be sad, he wants his mum to be happy i know it's so hard and your trying so hard. You know we are thinking of you. xx

Jennifer, I can't begin to know what this year has meant for you, you have been so sad. I am so pleased that we have been here for you to listen and keep you going, and we will continue to be here for you as long as you need us. Take care ann Glos

Thank you all so much, I really appreciate you being there-please have a good new year.

You know Jennifer i am always around. Annie xx

Bless you.

Always here for you, Jennifer.

Thank you.

Jennifer i do not know you well but i know this much you are a very brave lady and its lovely to know you will be with others helping them to have a lovely time your son would be proud of you. .Keep on Keeping On.......... June xx..

Jennifer, Talking is the best release, my brother lost his daughter ( 10yrs old ) and he tried drinking himself to death, talking helped him. I will be around new years eve and day night so if you need a chat just PM me. Wendy.xxxx

Nine months-the length of a pregnancy-As a lot of you now know, I lost my precious Son Stephen in March this year-at first I was talking to nobody and definitely no computer-eventually I needed to 'talk' to somebody, to voice my opinions, to air my distress, to tell somebody how I was feeling. With four other children trying to cope with our loss, I tried to be strong for them, and there for them, but who then was there for me, I know my kid's where, and my hubby, but who could I really tell how distressed I was? How my heart is breaking up more and more each moment, how I felt I could not survive another moment-you have guessed it folks, YOU-I could talk to you, tell you how I felt, without having to look you in the eye, without you having to see me cry-I can never ever thank you enough-it is no easier now, the heartache is still as raw as the 18th March, but to know I can talk to anyone of you on here, no matter what time of day it is, is so very comforting-this new years eve and new years day, I will be at work, looking after my folk with learning diabilities, we will have a party tea and sing a long to daft song's, they will be happy, I will be busy. But I also know that if necessary I can log on and there is always somebody there for me-so although Thank you seems inadequate-I do thank you all from the bottom of my Heart, and yes I know it is Saturday, my worst day, but I just want to tell you how great I think you all are. Love you all to bits. Have a fab new year-Jennifer.