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showered but not dressed, cant be bothered. nothing is going my way at the moment!They say house buying selling is stressful- why should it be?.Surely we are all just creating that stress for each other as buyers and seller? I feel like throwing in the towel and stopping where i am!

I know it feels awful at the moment but rise above it Jess, there are a lot worse things that can happen. Just sit back and look at it-----it is no big deal in the whole picture of things. Gloria :-)))))

You have my sympathies Jess. No consolation, but it does get better....Chin up :))) Heather

Jess They never seem to make it easy for each other do they. Just think at the end of it you will have somewher new to settle into, in the meantime just chill (probably not the best comment in this weather) Oh by the way tiddler kept calling them knick knack noos for a while. dawnie

Hi nsnap!!!!! me too soooooooo fed up with it all. grinds teeth ,tears hair etc etc etc !! The sign outside our house must also have a coded message that reads - only idiots apply here !!!- Lets moan together we might feel better! Angie x

Sorry to hear your feeling a bit down Jess, I have been in that same situation myself and it does get to you doesnt it? Try not to let it get you down too much though, and if its any consulation I have only just been bothered to get dressed myself and I aint even got anything to get down about at the moment. I hope it all works out for you in the end. Take Care Marie : )

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Got two fighting over mine- i much prefer one couple to the other, both offering exactly the same money £ for £. have found one we want , not 100% idea but probably 90%. lilttle choice BUT he wont accept our offer (3K below his asking price!) To say nothing is static in my world is an understatement! makes me feel all wibberly too . Shall i laugh, shall i cry? prob do both in next 10 mins

Jess, you have my sympathy, ours took 6 months and 3 buyers before we finally moved on the 20th December! Now we are in, we have done nothing but work on it, I suppose it will be worth it it in the end. Yesterday, we had a letter from the council that the previous owners had added on the to the property, it says that that the previous owners didn't have to pay extra Council Tax but now it has changed hands, it has to be revalued. No one warned us of this, it wouldn't have stopped us buying it but it would have been nice to be warned. Good Luck, dont let it get you down, I felt like you do but it does sort out in the end. June xx

Trust your instinct Jess - I didn't and end up being messed about for ages.There was just something about them- you know you just get a feeling. If your not 100% about the house do you know why? There's a house out there waiting for you- trust yourself- you'll know! Good luck Angie x

June 5 months on the market , not an offer then two in a week . have lost the one we Really wanted and have found something else.More work than we wanted to take on -i'll have to do it, but that is okay but it just sooooooo FRUSTRATING.Just accept my offer and be done with it.lets get wheels in BL**dy motion and stop faffing about!

We've been there Jess, and I think it is a power thing with some people, they just like to feel in charge. We had it with the last two properties, they put the price of the first one up, no other buyer, just wanted more, AND they knew how much we wanted it. The second one we found out later that she kept changing her mind, glad we didn't know about that. Whats meant for you won't pass you by. Gloria

Don't you dare - don't let the Ba****ds grind you down. Chin up and say sod the lot of ya and just go for gold. You can do it - if you don't you will be letting yourself down. Lin