General Chat

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workwise,i have to bottle it up. bryan.

brian my father was in the fireservice and he bottled things up...he never talked about the horrors he saw..understandable and for the job you do alsoxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx))):

I some times talk about mine but it takes ages for me to open up as I bottle it for a while My dad was in the ambulance service and never spoke about things either unless he told my mum

I find it very easy to talk about my problems, Lisa, whether people want to listen is another thing...lol Have you tried writing down all the things that upset you in a notebook every day? It is a really good way of getting rid of 'stuff' that bothers you:-) BC XX

bit of both, depending on the circumstances I now bottling things up is bad though, so I try not to do it any more

normally I bottle up BUT Today have something need to talk about

Bottler for years,,,,,till i exploded at someone a couple of weeks ago,,,,,,,,an now just you try,,,,,,,,,,

I bottle then explode & people cant understand whats hit them. Altho when i get to talk about whats worrying me I chew the cud & get boring repeating over& over again the tale. Thats me Folks. a worry guts, & cud chewer Shirley

Stel I am the same if anyone else has problems fine I am there but mine I hide them till I can't hide them any more

Hi, I'm with Stel on this one...very good at other people's problems but hopeless with my own. When I was going through cancer treatments years ago, and looking for all the answers.....I found it therapeutic to write it all down and get it out of my system. Then I found, quite to my amazement that this led to other forms of writing like poetry and children's stories etc, etc. I never knew I had so much in me.....but it took something so earth shattering to bring it out.

depends on what it is, but have been known to bottle things up, sometimes it isn't easy confiding in people.

gawd I can talk for scotland..no matter wot the subject!!! I dont tend to bottle things up at all...i will speak to my friends and/or family about whatever is troubling me...problem shared is a problem halved and all that