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When did you realise your partner was 'the one'? and do you believe that there is a 'one' out there for everyone?, do you think a person can have more than one 'One'? - I've gone out with 3 blokes (not at the same time!) and each of them at the time I thought was 'The one', sadly none of them thought I was 'The one' :-( and theyre all married to someone else now - one of them got married today :-( Karen

I'm the One ....who's the other lol Ken xx

Karen I kept thinking after 3 weeks when are you going to ask me to marry you. 19 years later still together

I met 'The One' when i was just seventeen, been together now for 25 years.

Very hard question to reply to actually.. I dont know when I thought about Dave as being 'the one'.. I just remember always feeling it, I think LOL! I was right though, 25 years nearly and we are still, best friends and soul mates! Maz x

bendy other way round he was a chef at the time and I was a lowly waitress

I must admit there were a few and one in particular who I thought were 'The One' and it took me a while to get over the one in particular (he broke my heart). But then I met Dan (my Husband) and it felt different straight away, almost like we'd always been together - we moved in together after a few months and have now been together almost 9 years and married for not quite 2. I feel that my Husband is my soul mate, even though he drives me mad sometimes and we do have some major bust ups - I can't imagine being with anyone else. But there are no guarantees in life and I am all too aware that some years down the line we may part? Maybe there is 'A one' for a particular place and time of your life? Kaye x

At first no, I didn't think Bob was 'The One'; looking back now, it's because we'd been friends and colleagues for 17 years. But after we'd got together and he had to go to California for a fortnight, I realised just how much he meant to me. Yes, he's my soul mate, my best friend, and definitely the very best thing that's happened to me (apart from our children, of course). x

Its hard to say how do you know hes the one.. I think my partner was the one cos he showed me more respect than the others, and could put up with me. Well he must be the one we have been together for 33 years now. If he asked me to marry him I would probably end up in hospital with shock! Regards Yvonne

unfortunately definately not. After 25 years of being married I'm at a crossorads and if things were available to me (somewhere to go and funds) I would be off. It's nice to know there are plenty of you who have 'the one' though. Good luck to you. Diane

Pass!!!! :O(

I'm not sure I believe in 'the one'. I think there are a lot of potential 'ones' and if you happen to meet up with one of them then that's good. I knew my OH as a friend before we got together and always liked him. I still do like him, which I think is important. Like is as important as love, I think. He is just the same as when I first met him (but older) as am I. We are different in a lot of ways but it works for us. Gwynne

I think there is somewhere I had one we were courting for five years then we were married for 35yr. and I dont think I will find another one she was my best friend and all you could wish for Howardxx