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Hi all, I was having a lovely day, Kian and I have been out shopping with our next door neighbour/friend and her little boy(Kians age) We decided to stop by the clinic to weigh them both.Well my ex was in there with his 'new gf' and their little baby! That is not the problem.The problem is, haven`t seen this man since May last year, I thought he had been posted. Our relationship wasn`t great, he was obsessive, didn`t like me seeing my mum or friends,controlling and very abusive mentally and pysically, he said hurtful comments and made me feel useless.!! When I saw him, I just filled with dread and felt so sick(if that makes sense) As Alison and I were about to leave, his girlfriend followed us out and starting hurling loads of abuse!!! Luckily Alison was with me and told her what for!!! Feel sick knowing that he lives on the MQ patch some where and that obviously I will bump into him around the village and at work(were the same trade) How can I get past this? P.S off to the doctors soon!!!

That must have been AWFUL. All I can say is that, SHE AINT NO LADY! You on the otherhand, ARE a lady. I dont know how I would handle it ,in future you will just have to play it by ear. Dont forget, you do not know what your ex said to her for doing what she did. You know what he is like. She may well be in trouble...................shame eh? LOL Deanna

Deanna, no doubt he has said horrible un true things about me. She`s not RAF (thank god) She`s a girl from one of the council estates down the road!!! Don`t even know the girl, did not like being shouted at like that, especially infront of my son and my friend(who was brilliant)

im hopeless with advice but here have a big hug! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) ali xxxx

Kerry, I have been married before. 1000 years ago. They often as in my case, and I'm sure yours, have nothing bad to use against you, so they make it up! It took me a year to realise that. She will believe it all, but she is going to find out for herself. PITY her, she doesnt know what she has ahead of her. Just you enjoy your lovely new baby, and your loving new man. Deanna x

Have a hug from me too, I'm much softer than Ali! All cushion!!! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hi Kerry, im sorry to hear what happend to you today, but think on the positive side, you know what this lout is like to live withand she has obviously got the short end of the stick with him, and she may be hitting out because you had the good sence to get out while she hasnt. but if the abuse continuse's form either her or him you can always report him to his commanding officer. Tina

Kerry, As the others have said..... HE WILL DO TO HER AS HE DID TO YOU!! Pity the poor woman, she can't have much pride in herself if she is willing to behave like that in public especially when it has nothing to do with her!! You are bigger than this and if you do bump into him/her again..... smile knowingly and hold your head high!! Pink xx

Hi Kerry, What a lovely pair of charmers they are, she must be very jealous of you to try and belittle you like that, l agree with another comment if it happens again report him a week-end of jankers might do the trick. Do you still have to paint all the stones white, as kids we used to take the mick out of the of the bods doing that going round and inspecting them lol Anne

Anne, we don`t paint stones white.They get them in the kitchens doing stuff!!! I know I`m much better than her and I do feel sorry for her!!! Nevermind,good advice about smiling at her thanks.Oh and the update on my ears,just got from from Med Cent and I have an inflammed ear drum, have been given co-amoxiclav!!!(never heard of it) Kerry x

Hoooray at last medication antibiotic it will take about 24hrs to get into your system then you will start feeling better and be able to enjoy easter xx

Never mind love all you have is an earache. It will get better. She has HIM...........and he wont! Deanna

What smashing advice from everyone, Kerry. I was about to say - regarding the new girlfriend - that what goes around, comes around. It will with her. But I won't mention it now, as it's been said, lol. Glenys :-)