General Chat

Emma, Im sorry I gave you bad advice. DONT hit him. xxxxx

Take care Emma, am thinking of you :)

Thankyou everyone, some very good advise. Bless you all for listening to me moan and moan. I promise i will add a cheerful thread one of these days!

Emma, near neighbours of ours about 3months ago broke up. He said he didnt love anymore. Off he went into the blue yonder with another woman. now that is probably not the problem but the answer may just be. He came back because the grass was not greener on the other side. Your mother in law in my opinion is not likely to visit you if she thinks the problems lie all at your door. I think like the majority of m i l's she will not side with her son because he is her son but because you are her daughterand will do every thing she can to bring harmony back to the household. This is not unique in the marriage stakes and I feel sure that you will have the benefit of her counsel. The fact that she is coming indicates she is willing to try to save the marriage . Be of good cheer for the childrens sake. God bless you, both Rupert

I dont know how old you are ,or anything about you so my advice would not be a good thing to give. Let me just tell you that argueing is a NORMAL part of a relationship. We all do it, we do it with our parents , friends, partners. The closer you are, the worse the fights. I always think that is because we feel secure. Deanna An expert in Bolshiness!!!!! :-O)

But would he really leave, Emma? They say people can say the most awful things to their partner just to hurt them; this smacks of that. There's some brilliant ideas on here! Chin up! Glenys x

Though he went the other night - what did you let him back in for? I Know, i know you love him! jess

I suppose his job could be stressing him out, but he doesnt know how to talk. I try and he tells me where to go. Its such a nightmare. I dunno i am sure it will all sort itself out somehow! Its all drama drama drama here.

I tried to talk to him last night and he told me he has only been here for the last 2 years because of our son! That did it for me. Enough said.

I cant go out as i have all the kids here and hes gone out!! I like his mum but as hes being such a git i dont want there to be an atmosphere when shes here, i think i will have to stay out of the way as much as possible! She likes a tidy home too so i have some housework to do!!!!!! As for buttercups advice.... theres nothing i would like to do more!!!

Emma could be a blessing, MIL could take him back with her lol personally i would tell him, shes your mum you entertain her and then go out for the day!!!! Bev (who doesn't have a MIL)

Buttercup,you missed you vocation as a marriage guidance councellor.LOL Sorry Emma,ther is nothing worse than M-I-L- COMING TO STAY when you two are having a bit of a stressy time.Take Buttercups advice,-Well maybe not all of it too literally-LOL-rOSE

can you get away for an hour? go for a walk, see a friend? Bev

Oh god tell me about it, its stress overload at the moment, i dont think i can get through this week in one bit! I am trying to stay calm but its all going haywire! They do say that everything happens at once but this takes the p**s!

emma talk to us scream at us anything we can do??

Emma... Just take a DEEP breath....sit down somewhere comfortable, pour a glass of something, preferably alcoholic, think of the reasons why you fell in love with him. And THEN hit him!!! lol xxxx

Emma talk to us. There's far too much stress in your house for you and your children.

Oh i just wanna scream and scream....me and fella have had MASSIVE fall out hes on about leaving and his mother is coming to stay on thursday!!!!! I wanna Run away. And i am having my raffle night on saturday, and its half term..........aaaaaaaaaaaarrrrhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! What am i gonna do?