General Chat

Joyce, haven't you a friend you can visit sometimes for a nice meal so you don't have to eat mil's food all the time? I do feel for you going through all this hassle and hope you can look ahead to the time when everything is done and life can get back to normal. I know what living with a man in that mood is like, I get it all the time here but I have to opportunity to walk away at some point so have light at the end of the tunnel. Your situation is different so hope you can prevent yourself from clonking Jan over the head with something next time he starts and get through this. Good luck, Lizx

Good morning Joyce - Aww bless you, come and stay here for a while, we have 2 spare bedrooms, well we have when l empty them of ironing and craft things :o((( you take care, your both exhausted physically and menatlly. love jude sarf wales :o) x

Awww Joyce, chin up love. I know just how you feel, give yourself a time scale and look forward to it. Take care. Tina x

Then just smile through gritted teeth and do your best to eat what you can.........it is kind of her though. xx

wishful thinking you dont no my m.i.l shes good natured sometimes but she gets you down as she has to do everything im dreading this as she thinks i should eat what they do but i dont like some of there food,and if i say anthing she gets face on

Joyce, I understand that you don't like your mother in laws cooking, but think of the alternative..........eating out every night is very expensive. Maybe you can offer to help with the meals, that way you have some control over what is made. x

Sending you some hugs Joyce. (((((((hugs))))))) Take care. Jxx

im dreading next week when the builders are back we wont have know kitchen or livingroom wall its all coming out,so we have to go to my m.i.l to eat every night i know thats good of her but i dont like her cooking

Oh Joyce - poor you - sounds to me like you and hubby both need a holiday. You should take a leaf out of my book - what dont get done today will still be there to do tomorrow. Take care Love Mary xxx

40 times!!! We daren't move, I'd have to go looking in all those places I haven't looked at in years................and hire at least 2 skips to get rid of the accumulated junk (that might come in handy one day, but never does)!!:)))) xx

hi joyce moving is one of the most stressfullest time ever, you both are under enourmous stress and need a breather ive moved 40 times , the second from last made me ill the last put me in hospital, (one way to get out of it ) lol. trey and get out on your own in the fresh wet air for a little walk it will recharge your batteries , good luck with the move xx

He sounds exhausted, working all day and coming home with no chance to relax is taking its toll. Bit unfair to take it out on you, but I can understand why he is so stressed. You are too, of course it can't be any fun living in a building site. xx

ive just about had with this moving thing yesterday hubby came home from work and i was suppose to pack all the dishes away said i would do after tea and becase i didnt do it right away he started throwing dishes into the box its awonder nothing was broken ,he said last night he needs his holiday which is coming up on the 26 aug,sorry to moan but this is getting me down joyce from hollandx