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Visit with Grandson

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T J

T J Report 9 Aug 2007 20:46

As you are all aware following my thread about flaming social services .......... well my grandson was finally placed with my step daughter 2 wks ago today ......... Well today we went to visit him and although we were both excited we both came away upset ............ he stared thro' us both as if to say who are you? but at least Hubby got a couple of cuddles ......... he wouldn't have anything to do with me ............I was heartbroken xxxxxxx

♥≈♥Louise♥≈♥

♥≈♥Louise♥≈♥ Report 9 Aug 2007 20:47

oh chick itll take time ..im sorry

Janette

Janette Report 9 Aug 2007 20:56

Sweetheart, don't know what happened but sounds tramatic for the little one Just give him time He knows who loves him

Tina-Marie

Tina-Marie Report 9 Aug 2007 20:57

Time will heal TJ, he will come to love you, don't lose heart, you've come so far. All the best. Tina x

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 9 Aug 2007 20:58

TJ love, Im so sorry it was hard but I agree with others it is going to take the little one time to adjust, Hugs, Caz xxx

°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º Little Nanna Lynn °º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°

°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º Little Nanna Lynn °º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º° Report 9 Aug 2007 20:58

time and love and patience TJ it will work in the end xxLynnxx

Rambling

Rambling Report 9 Aug 2007 21:06

TJ, next time will be better I promise, children are like that until you re-build the bond, I didn't see my nephew and niece much when they were little simply because of time and distance,so each time i did, it just meant trying to relax with them until they got used to me again. He will soon find out what fun it is to have you! Rosexx

T J

T J Report 9 Aug 2007 21:15

Thanx Guys ..... I sincerely hope you are right .......... For hubbys sake if not my own I can't bear to see him hurting like this xxxxx

Unknown

Unknown Report 9 Aug 2007 22:12

((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) in time iam sure he wont leave you alone, little step's you know where iam if you want chat lynn x

T J

T J Report 9 Aug 2007 22:16

Thanx Lynn ............xxxx

♫ Penny €

♫ Penny € Report 10 Aug 2007 10:55

Hi I'm sure as others have said he will change in time. he has had a traumatic few months will lots of different peoples faces to see & he is only little. Penny

Deanna

Deanna Report 10 Aug 2007 11:27

Give him time love.... it will be fine soon. (((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) Deanna X

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 10 Aug 2007 11:55

That is sad for you T.J. your expectations must have been high, but little ones are like that I am afraid......it used to happen to my Dad and does to my MiL when they see the great grandchildren, they want to hug and cuddle them, but the little ones have to get used to them again..... Just keep in contact and it will all come right.....he will realise that you are special people to him in time....