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now I wish mum was still here.

Theres something I wanted to hear her say

Malc, your Mum is with you all the time! But she wont speak. She will either smile and nod or shake her finger at you!

I know that my gran does this!

Lindy,
xxx

Hi Malc You will you will no doubt be able to write a book of the things you would like to say now. be patient friend time will help you god bless you Jackie and your mum ,howie xxx

Oh! Malc, I know love, I know. Be strong XX.

Malc,
Your mum will let you know she is there,
people may laugh but when I have a problem, and I am lying in bed I smell ciggy smoke and none of us smoke only my mum. you may hey a drift of perfume or something that reminds you of her, but take haert my friend she knows you are hurting, and all that you did for her. you have a lot of friend here and you have jackie. you are still very raw. you will want to scream shout, and cry and you will blame your mum for leaving you.
Take heart
anf god bless you
Phyl.

this is all so true whats been said to you malc
take time,
dont feel you shouldnt cry,
if you want to cry,
but when she wants you to your mum will make you notice the signs shes giving you,

my daughter had a black jumper for christmas while out other day with her, (after me and her had a bit of barney and made up after) i noticed a tiny tiny white feather on her elbow, at the back of her jumper,
i told her and it made her smile , she knew it was from mam

tkae care malc,
its tuff time, but you got friends round you
and jackie
love to you both

Hi Malc,
She does love you!!

Betty

Oh Malcolm.

Hugs and plenty of them coming your way.

love Theresa

Malc all your feelings are normal they say beareavement comes in stages relief, anger, unanswered questions what if, why did i why did i not etc it's awful dark days for you at the moment.

You know you done your best and your mum knows too. Try and focas on the good times you shared them lovely happy memories that you have your mum would not want you sad would she Malc?

She has only slipped next door, god only takes the best.
God bless you, lots of hugs.

Malc the answer would undoubtly be----YES of course,

Yes .I loved you ,you are my son,

Yes. I was proud even in bads times,

Yes. I will still be near when you need me.


Yes .we will meet again.

But for now I'm only peacefully sleeping.

Malc may i just add your mum would be so proud of you as her son, i mean i'm sure everyone would agree with me on this. You have told us all along how things were going, Malc i think your mum knew you have a lovely lady to take care of you so she felt the time was right

hi Malc,i lost my mother last year,the grief is hard,very hard,ive never chatted to you before,but from what i can see,you have many friends here to help you through,let them be here for you they seem like a great bunch.

Malc-she loves you,you will meet her again,we are all weeping with you and we've been there ,it will be hard but it will get easier-it will never go away,and it shouldn't,you'll always remember her --but she dosn't want you miserable ,just be strong and be proud to be her son x