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I have just found out that my birth mother also had another daughter adopted I would say in the 1970, her birthmother would have been a Barbara Fayers or Barbara Baston , Barbara died in 2002 and was from London , I know this is a longshot but would love to here from anyone that could help ,

Kind regards

Marie

try freebmd using just the mums surname

By implication, it sounds as if you were also adopted. Are you aware of this site?
https://www.gov.uk/adoption-records/the-adoption-contact-register

There are further links on the above relating to Intermediary Agencies. They’d be allowed to access her file & be told her adoptive name. They’d try to trace her &, if successful, out her in contact with you. It would be her decision.

Which of the two surnames you’ve given was your birth mother’s maiden name?

If she was unmarried when she gave birth, the entry would usually be listed as
Mother’s Maiden name - child’s given name - mother’s maiden name

Otherwise it would be
Father’s surname- child’s given name- mother’s maiden name.

these were adopted

Births Sep 1969 (>99%)
FAYERS Joanne Christina FAYERS Hendon 5c 6515/S

Births Sep 1975 (>99%)
FAYERS SANDRA FAYERS IPSWICH 10 2700/S

Births Dec 1972

BASTON ANNE MARIE BASTON OXFORD 6B 2876/S Scan

BASTON CHARLOTTE BASTON CHESTERFIELD 3A 2876/S

This was on the General Board:

https://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards/board/general_chat/thread/1375987

Rose

Carol
Report
30 Jun 2007 17:07
I am looking for any body who would have known a Barbara Baston she married a man named Russell Fayers he died in 1997 but i think Barbara may still be alive. I have an address for this lady but she would be to old to just phone and ask what i need to no regarding family. I would love to hear some good news as i have hit a very large brick wall and am fed up of searching carol.

So your BM was born Barbara L Fayers, MMN Baston? Born in Loughboro?

Not seeing a marriage for her. What name is her death under?

Rose

That 2007 post could be the same person as the present poster?

Tree search shows 2 people have the same two entered birth details for Barbara L





Barbara married under the surname =Baston.in 1941,to F R Fayers.

B L Baston bn 1922 St Pancras.

Appear in London electorals,,1947--1950---1964--1965.

Edit,

I think there maybe is a mix-up regarding the right Barbara as birth mothers details.? the above are the grandparents.

""" my grandad was Russell fredrick Fayers he was an Aircraft Engineer but he died in 1997"""

Kay, I think so:

Carol Report 14 Mar 2007 17:07
Hello i am looking for the family of Russell Fayers his wife is Barbara Fayers they lived at 64 fortin way south ockendan Essex. I was adopted in 1959 i have more information on this family but would like to keep it private at this time i would love to hear from anybody that could give me just a little bit of information on this family. regards carol

Question is, which Barbara? Seems more likely it was the daughter seeing as she mentions a birth in the 70s. Barbara senior would have been in her late 40s then.

Rose

Lot more here, although the poster says Barbara Ann.

https://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards/board/ancestors/thread/380984

Rose

So Barbara married a Hogan in 1967 and had 3 sons. Not seeing any Hogan/Fayers for a girl in the 70s.

Rose

I found her death under Barbara Ann and Barbara Lillian Hogan.

Seems likely the sister you are looking for was born before the 1967 marriage.

Rose

Barbara the daughter,,,,,,Hogan ,died 2002,bn 1942,although the entries is as,,,,,,,B Ann & B Lilian,which is the 1942 registered birth name.!

Marie/Carole belive the child coud have been adopted in 1970s,so may not have been born then.

PM sent to Marie asking her to read & respond to suggestions/queries. Marie has only used the boards twice under this account & may be expecting personal replies.

There's a birth in 1964 in Islington has strong possibilities. This is the same district where Barbara married in 1967.

You already know about the sister born in 1962 from previous threads.

Rose