General Chat

So have you sent him a friend request Joyce? or have you just sent a message?

I have noticed if a non friend sends me a message when using my phone or tablet there is no way to see that message

Joyce, I hope that one day you will be able to come on here and tell us that he has made contact with you. Then we will all celebrate with you. It just seems that, hard though you find it, you have to be patient. <3 <3

Thank you everyone his mums family did not like my son it seem ashame as she was living my son and I did not interview with them ,but she did on that day my son never got over it ,but she was loverly young women only 22 years old it was awful what happen ,but I will leave it now thank you for telling me

he has one of your granddaughters on his list,,maybe she would be the best person to relay any gentle messages,,,,just to let him know how you think about him often,,,,,,,,but no pressure,,,,,,,his life may not at present be able to give you an open door or arms...he may hold some grudges?

Hi Joyce, I don't think it will help if a stranger messages him on your behalf, for one thing the message will go to his 'other' messages inbox as the person will not be a friend so he might not even see it. And he might not be happy with someone else getting in touch anyway.

Maybe he just wants time to talk to his family about the past before he gets in touch with you? I know you really want him to contact you but i think you may have to let him do so when he feels the time is right. But it's good that you have found him and know he is ok :-)

I think you have to wait and see if he wants to be in touch, Joyce.

You've written to him so he knows how to get in touch if he wants to. If you try to force it, it may never happen. Wait a while then maybe your granddaughter can speak to him again.

(((hugs)))

Hi Guinevere someone who could ask him if he would just speak to me ,he is anice young me now been in the army,if some can help will pm his name its now changed as he had my sons name but now has his mums ,but he is adorped to there family and thank you xx

What help do you want, Joyce?

I have found my grandson who I have been looking for for 32years he was loverly boy but his mum died when he was two and ive never seen him since ,and he will be 34 on the 28 of this month even if he would say say hello ,ive wrote to him on FB as his wedding photos are on there with me being sick and the stroke and brain damage I have mybe he dos,nt want to ,he has let one of my granddaughters on but he said it will take some time that's nearly all this year I think thank you Joycex