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andrew born in dover

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Tracey

Tracey Report 1 Oct 2016 14:32

hi have very little information looking for a boy born in the last 1/4 of 1960 named andrew pashley and info would be gratefull for i believe he was adopted

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 1 Oct 2016 14:40

His birth record doesn't indicate adopted

What info are you looking for please?

Can I ask what the connection is also ?

:-)

Parents married 1953 Hull reg district

Another son born hull district

Records are on FreeBMD

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 1 Oct 2016 14:44

Its difficult if he was adopted as only he can find you, not the other way round. Have you bought his BC to be sure that's what happened? Might he have been adopted by a stepfather if his mother remarried?

He isn't listed on any trees under his birth name on this site, including your own. If he or relatives were searching for birth family, thats the name they'd look for.

You could leave a Post'em message against his birth reg saying that birth family would welcome contact. Use a generic email address not linked to your broadband supplier.

Have you added his name to the adoption contact register yet?
https://www.gov.uk/adoption-records/the-adoption-contact-register

If you know which SS handled the presumed adoption, they may be willing to keep a letter on file in case he decides to access his records

Kay????

Kay???? Report 1 Oct 2016 16:29


Andrews brother is also searching for him.

Tracey

Tracey Report 1 Oct 2016 16:48

what do you mean brother

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 1 Oct 2016 17:01

He has an elder brother born in 1953. Hull reg district

Look on FreeBMD for the marriage of the parents and both boys births

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 1 Oct 2016 17:08

Here's the message from his brother
https://www.missing-you.net/people/born-andrew-pashley-142697.php

Kay????

Kay???? Report 1 Oct 2016 17:45


Tracey are you related to them both,?
The brother has only just started searching in the last week or so.

Ru

Ru Report 4 Oct 2016 10:29

Tracey, have you tried the white pages - British Telecom Residential numbers; there are two Pashley's in the area. It is not that common a name so might pay to make a diplomatic connection. But I expect you have thought of this.

Good luck.
Peahen