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I have two sisters Sarah Tolhurst b 1877 and Ellen Tolhurst b 1891 both born in Maidstone, living in Bearsted, their parents are William & Amy, i cannot find Sarah after 1881c .
I have searched marriages but none seem to fit, any help would be great

Do you mean that you have not got Sarah with her family in the 1891 census (when she is only 14)?

Added, just for ref:
1881 England Census
William Tolhurst Age: 28 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1853
Relation: Head Spouse's Name: Amy Tolhurst
Gender: Male Where born: Sittingbourne, Kent, England
Civil parish: Thornham County/Island: Kent
Country: England
Street Address: Ware Street 2 Tolhursts Cottages
Condition as to marriage: Married
Occupation: Agricultl Labourer
Registration district: Hollingbourn
Sub-registration district: Hollingbourn
ED, institution, or vessel: 10 Piece: 933 Folio: 119 Page Number: 3
William Tolhurst 28
Amy Tolhurst 24
Saral Tolhurst 4
Amy Tolhurst 1
Robert Geo. Reeves 26
Source Citation: Class: RG11; Piece: 933; Folio: 119; Page: 3; GSU roll: 1341222.

Perhaps they didn't marry............

Have you checked deaths?

For INFO......1901


Name: Ellen Sollunst
[Ellen Tolhurst]
Age: 9
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1892
Relation: Daughter
Father's Name: William Sollunst
Mother's Name: Amy Sollunst
Gender: Female
Where born: Thornham, Kent, England
Civil parish: Thornham
Ecclesiastical parish: Thornham
County/Island: Kent
Country: England

Registration district: Hollingbourn
Sub-registration district: Hollingbourn
ED, institution, or vessel: 9
Neighbors: View others on page
Household schedule number: 73
Piece: 770
Folio: 105
Page Number: 12
Household Members:
Name Age
William Sollunst 48
Amy Sollunst 43
Rose Sollunst 19
Ellen Sollunst 9

Name: Ellen Tolhurst
Age in 1911: 20
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1891
Relation to Head: Daughter
Gender: Female
Birth Place: Thurnham, Kent
Civil parish: Thornham
County/Island: Kent
Country: England
Street Address: Ware Street, Bearsted, Maidstone, Kent
Marital Status: Single
Occupation: Assisting In Labourer Dairy Work
Registration district: Hollingbourne
Registration District Number: 52
Sub-registration district: Hollingbourne
ED, institution, or vessel: 9
Household schedule number: 110
Piece: 4169
Household Members:
Name Age
William Tolhurst 58
Amy Tolhurst 55
Ellen Tolhurst 20
Charles William Foster 32
Rose Foster 29
Dorothy Foster 3
William Foster 2
George Foster 3

Yes Patchem, i cannot find her even though she is only 14, i checked locally incase she was a servant somewhere but nothing came up.
Yes i have checked death dates from 1881 onwards

The 1911 census for William and Amy has them having 4 children, all living.

Pretended to be older??
1891 England Census
Sarah Tolhurst Age: 16 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1875
Relation: Servant
Gender: Female
Where born: Bobbing, Kent, England
Civil parish: Hornsey Ecclesiastical parish: St Mary Town: Hornsey County/Island: Middlesex Country: England
Registration district: Edmonton Sub-registration district: Hornsey
ED, institution, or vessel: 4 Piece: 1059 Folio: 130 Page Number: 51
Jane Wentworth 80
Jane Wentworth 38
Ellen Wentworth 35
Gustav P C Hopf 26
Sarah Tolhurst 16
Source Citation: Class: RG12; Piece: 1059; Folio: 130; Page: 51; GSU roll: 6096169.

Corresponds to this birth
Births Jun 1876
Tolhurst Sarah Milton 2a 814

a possible on 1891 census

Person: TOLHURST, Sarah
Address: 14, Alexandra Road, Hornsey

WENTWORTH, Jane Head Widow F 80 1811 Living On Own Means Pulborough, Sussex
WENTWORTH, Jane Daughter Single F 38 1853 Elementary Teacher London School Board Finsbury, London
WENTWORTH, Ellen Daughter Single F 35 1856 Living On Own Means Finsbury, London
HOPF, Gustav P C Guest Single M 26 1865 Clerk In General Merchants Office Hambury, Germany
TOLHURST, Sarah Servant Single F 16 1875 General Servant Domestic Bobbing, Kent


>>>edit, or perhaps not

1901 census

Address: Black Cottages, Key Street, Bobbing

TOLHURST, Stephen Head Widower M 62 1839 Farm Labourer Headcorn, Kent
TOLHURST, Sarah Daughter F 25 1876 Bobbing, Kent
TOLHURST, Mary Daughter F 20 1881 Bobbing, Kent

I saw this one, is Bobbing near to Milton where she was born if so why would you change your named place of birth

When did William marry Amy?
Was Sarah born before the marriage, and could be shown in 1891 in her Mother's maiden name? (Just a thought)

It depends who fills in the census what place of birth they would put down..

Added:
1911 census says married 36 years, so 1875, so ignore above.

However, only this showing:
Marriages Sep 1876
Reeves Amy Maidstone 2a 969
Tolhurst William Maidstone 2a 969

No second forename, unfortunately

Births Dec 1891 (>99%)
TOLHURST Ellen Hollingbourn 2a 727

Another of the siblings

Births Dec 1881 (>99%)
TOLHURST Rose Hollingbourne 2a 716

No trace of Sarah's birth...............

Marriages Sep 1876 (>99%)
Billenners William Robert Maidstone 2a 969
BILLENNESS William Robert Maidstone 2a 969
Edmunds Mary Maidstone 2a 969
Reeves Amy Maidstone 2a 969
Tolhurst William Maidstone 2a 969

???????

Births Jun 1876 (>99%)
Reeves Sarah Ann Maidstone 2a 659

??
Births Jun 1876
Reeves Sarah Ann Maidstone 2a 659

Added:
Snap, Reggie.

Michele,
I had assumed you had found her birth details..

??
Marriages Jun 1897
Hughes Frederick James Maidstone 2a 1391
REEVES Sarah Ann Maidstone 2a 1391
Tomsett Harriet Matilda Maidstone 2a 1391
Vidgen Charles Maidstone 2a 1391

1901 census

Address: Chapel Lane, Thornham, Village

VIDGEN, Charles Head Married M 25 1876 Agricultural Labourer Sutton Valence, Kent
VIDGEN, Sarah Wife Married F 24 1877 Maidstone, Kent
VIDGEN, Ellen Daughter Single F 3 1898 Thornham, Kent
VIDGEN, Rose Daughter Single F 1 1900 Thornham, Kent


1911 census

Address: Chapel Lane Thurnham

VIDGEN, Charles Head Married M 35 1876 Farm Labourer Sutton Valena Kent
VIDGEN, Sarah Ann Wife Married13 years F 34 1877 Maidstone Kent
VIDGEN, Ellen May Daughter F 13 1898 School Thurnham Kent
VIDGEN, Rose Ada Daughter F 11 1900 School Thurnham Kent
VIDGEN, Charles William Son M 9 1902 School Thurnham Kent
VIDGEN, Amy Clara Daughter F 7 1904 School Thurnham Kent
VIDGEN, Ethel Frances Daughter F 4 1907 Thurnham Kent
VIDGEN, Bertha Daughter F 1 1910 Thurnham Kent

Piggybacking on the marriage posted by patchem

Name: Charles Vidgen
Age in 1911: 35
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1876
Relation to Head: Head
Gender: Male
Birth Place: Sutton Valence, Kent
Civil parish: Thornham
County/Island: Kent
Country: England
Street Address: Chapel Lane, Thurnham
Marital Status: Married
Occupation: Farm Labourer
Registration district: Hollingbourne
Registration District Number: 52
Sub-registration district: Hollingbourne
ED, institution, or vessel: 9
Household schedule number: 92
Piece: 4169
Household Members:
Name Age
Charles Vidgen 35
Sarah Ann Vidgen 34
Ellen May Vidgen 13
Rose Ada Vidgen 11
Charles William Vidgen 9
Amy Clara Vidgen 7
Ethel Frances Vidgen 4
Bertha Vidgen 1

The names of 3 of the daughters look interesting

The names of the daughters do, indeed, look interesting.

Civil registration event: Death

Name: VIDGEN, Sarah A
Registration district: Maidstone
County: Kent
Year of registration: 1947
Quarter of registration: Jan-Feb-Mar
Age at death:71
Volume no: 5B
Page no: 893


she was a widow

England & Wales, National Probate Calendar (Index of Wills and Administrations), 1858-1966
about Sarah Ann Vidgen
Name: Sarah Ann Vidgen
Probate Date: 25 Jun 1947
Death Date: 28 Mar 1947
Death Place: Maidstone
Registry: London, England