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Hi Stacey! One thing I thought of immediately when I read your thread header was an episode of the Ricki Lake Show. On it, was a stunningly beautiful girl, about your age funnily enough (I've read your other threads lol). However, she had the most awful attitude EVER. Thought she was the bees knees, to put it politely. Ricki though, put it in a nutshell: 'So you're a beautiful girl, with an ugly attitude'. That shut that girl up. Anyway, looks aside, don't forget you're YOU. And as for those pillocks who made those crass comments about you, well, I could say something but like you, I'm a lady! lol You're a lovely young girl, don't forget that. And forget those idiots; as Elaine has said, what goes around comes around. Just sit back and wait ............. *steps off high horse* *waits for round of applause* *puts arm round Stacey* Take care, you. x

Racey i too had very low self esteem and would be very upset about other peoples comments until one day i thought i was not going to put up with anoymore ...if they didn't like me tough titties.......i am who i am and i will not change for anyone ....i smile everyday and feel good about myself...like i have always said the only person i will ever please in my life is myself .....be yourself and don't let anyone change that...love and hugsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx(((((:

Are those two that were so horrible anything to look at? Probably not. I find it laughable that the men who put women down are always the most unfanciable creatures in the whole world. Years ago when I was out with my friends a bloke asked me to dance - I didn't really want to and politely said no and he said I was obviously a lesbian! Be yourself, don't change to suit others - you are obviously far too nice to associate with them anyway. Like Elaine says, do not settle for second best it really isn't worth it. love and hugs Lorrainex

Stacey <<<<<<<<<<<<Huge Hugs >>>>>>>>>>>> just for you. Believe in yourself. Jac

a big ((( HUG ))) just for you. bryan.

Hello Stacey, How are you? Life is way too short to worry about what people think about you. There are a lot of genuine people out there who would love to be friends with you. There are also a lot of skinny people out there who are single too so don't lose confidence over your weight. Be yourself, go out and enjoy your life. Life is not a rehearsal! :-) Take care x Lesley

Hi Stacey, big ((hug)), if you know who you are and are happy, take no notice of the things being said to you. These people will get theirs when the time comes!! So what if you want to be different and colour your hair and wear what you like to wear. It's who you are sweetheart. Don't change 'cos a couple of oafs can't see past their noses!!! I live in Essex too and know what you mean about some of the distance of meets, am shy too when meeting new people, but want to go one day. Soon as I can, got some lovely people to meet on here and think it would be nice to put a face to the person behind the chat!! lol Think about going along to one of the meets, it could change how you see yourself entirely, these are welcoming people who take you as you are!!! Nanna-Moo ;-)) ~~~~ Catherine and Puss and many others!!! xxx

stacey in your heart would you like to come if you could get here if so i can try and arrange tho not promising you would be with lovely friendly people x

Oh Stacey sweetheart, a huge hug for you , love, I know it wont help much but they are very sad, you are worth more, Take care, Caz xxxx PM whenever you want, I have low self esteem too xxx

Stacey,People can be so cruel,I know its easy for someone on the outside to say but just ignore them,their really not worth a thought. You can always change whats on the outside,but you cant change whats on the inside,and thats the most Important part,Inner Beauty is by far the best,and Im sure your a very attractive girl on the outside too. Roxanne x

Stacey,,,,love,,,like my dad used to say and its true,,,,,,,,,,,many a mans head is swayed by a pretty face,,,,,,,,,,but if thats all she has to offer,,,,,,,what going to happen if she looses them?? and S---x will draw you further than dynamite can blow you,, think about it,,,,,,,,,!!! kay,

thanks guys, I know I don't need them to make me feel wanted/needed but I can't help it. Kay - yes they are male but it doesn't help when I take them out with one of my other friends who has a good figure and pretty. Lady Pussytat, thank you but a 4 hour drive isn't really something I can afford at the moment (i live in Essex). Thank you very much tho. I hope you all have lots of fun! THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH! I knew I post here for a reason. Sx :o)

Hi Stacey, As you dont say if these two are male or female,,,so we'll presume male,,,,,,,what gives them them the preconcieved idea that you would have accepted them anyway,?perhaps they needed telling you are aiming your standards a little higher,,,thank you,,,,,,,,,forget about size,,,,,, ,look inside and see the real you,,,,,,,,,somebody is just waiting to find someone just like you ----just as you are,

Awwwwwww Stacey sending (((((hugs))))) to you love. Try and rise above it hon I know it's hard but you clearly deserve more and you always get back what you give in the long run I am a firm believer in that. Good things are coming to you I am sure of it. Chin up chickxx

Stacey Don't let them get to you-there not worth it. You always come across as a lovely girl with a great personality, some people like nothing better to do then to get at people. Ignore them, hold your head high, be glad that you don't need to stoop to their level. ((((((hugs)))))) catherine xx

Hi Stacey It's hard to be cheerful when someone's words are like a slap in the face, but try to keep your chin up. I hope that the messages on here will help you feel better soon. Love Mandy :) x

Stacey luv Having a wee 'woman's moment' of my own - can't find the right words for you just now but wanted to send you some (((hugs))) xxx

A ((((HUG)))) for you Stacey Heather x

Hi Stacey, You are you, an individual. On here, we have not met you and you come over as a little shy but with a very nice character. You are one of our 'babies', i.e. one of our younger members, a breath of fresh air to some of us oldies (I am 66). I love talking to you about card making, scrap booking. You have a great personality. You will find someone who likes you for who you are inside. The ones who spoke of you so disparagingly are not worth bothering about, ignore them, keep smiling and youw ill find someone when youa re not looking. Not sure which part of the country you live in but do try and get to a meet. If you are shy, someone will arrange to meet you earlier and go with you. Lots of peple have been shy at their first meets so we always understand. Ann Glos

Hi i am too a larger lady!! Who has been happily married for 6 years. My husband loves me the way i am and says the weight is something i have to choose to lose. They are just very petty people who need reminded that you can lose weight easily at any point you wish to but they wont have a chance of changing the people they are inside. People tend to pick on people and make snide comments when they have a low esteem themselves. Its your life do what you want and just remember 2 people arent the only people you will meet in life.