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forgiving is so hard to do for some people........

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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 4 Feb 2005 18:38

joanne just put it into words for me i forgive a load of stuff thats hurt me but yes i hold a grudge and things that hurt you badly you never forget then you have to find trust

Lisa

Lisa Report 4 Feb 2005 19:33

good one elaine.i could say that about alot of people.LOLxxxxxxxxxxxxx(:

Lisa

Lisa Report 4 Feb 2005 19:34

mwybe you should forgive elaine.it can turn people very bitter when you don'txxxxxxx(:

Lisa

Lisa Report 4 Feb 2005 19:34

don't really want to explain paul.xx(:

maggiewinchester

maggiewinchester Report 4 Feb 2005 19:46

If someone has done something to upset me personally, I don't tend to bear a grudge, neither do I dwell on what they've done - that leaves a constant black feeling and a sense of unease. I don't want to have my life blighted by the stupid actions/words said or done out of spite or thughtlessness - they were the thoughtless ones not me!! If their conscious doesn't tell them they're in the wrong they're not worth bothering about. Having said that, I do have a good 'slagging off' session about that person with a friend! However there are certain members of my family whom I never had much to do with who, after their recent treatment of my mother I will have absolutely nothing to do with! But that's because I don't like them!! maggie

Lisa

Lisa Report 4 Feb 2005 19:49

i have forgiven my father for my bad childhood and after 13 years of not talking we are in contact and hoping to go and see him.he has never seen his grandaughter in the years that she has been here with us.he has health problems and i felt that life is too short.that is wht i mainly put up this thread and also about all the bickering and bitching that has been going on lately.life is too short remember thatxxxxxx(: