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Hi, I have been advised to put a thread up and hopefully get some help. I have a (had) a beautiful girl of 8 who got bullied from infants school. I have sorted that but now my beautiful girl is now getting horrible and swearing, telling me to f off, she was so beautiful and how do i get her back. J&J

Thank you O C, will have to solve problem on my own eh! thank you for your help though. Love J&J X

Oh bless her and you. I hope you get to the bottom of things soon. For your sake and hers. xxxxxxx

Sorry to hear your news. So many things to think about first. Have you approached her school,her form teacher/or headmaster. There must be someone who could help you to get to the bottom of this. Sorry I cant help in any other way, my grandson was bullied from infant school, my daughter did approach the school first off though. Although his personality was the opposite to your situation. Im sure someone on here might be able to help you more than I can. Sending you my thoughts. Trish xx

Sorry to hear this Is she still being bullied at school? How does she behave at school and with other adults? Jay

Thank you Muffy Its harder cos she wos lovely and now telling lies! don't know what to do or believe. thanks for your thoughts though juliex

Hi Janet in Yorkshire That's the bit I don't undersand! teachers love her, but cos I caught her out lieing, what do i believe? apparently she is so kind and she does get awards at school! i love her to bits but am i biased? Am I thinking the worsst of her? love Julie who loves her daughter to bits

Kids lie that's what they do but it's a learning curve. She sounds like a lovely but confused little girl. Keep the hugs coming - I am sure she will open up when she feels ready xx

J & J No, no, I didn';t mean you have to solve it on your own! I just thought your problem would get lost in the middle of the other thread, and you needed a thread of your own. Not abandoning you, honestly. OC

Hi Muffy Than for trying to work out her probs, not easy!! thanks for your help though but she is still only 8 but trying to act 15?? she used to be so loving and cuddly but now is so lairy is this the norm? Thanks for answering Juluex

Well if the teachers tell you her behaviour is fine at school, I guess it is. But none of us are angels ALL the time! Does she behave badly all the time at home, or just sometimes? Children do get tired and stressed sometimes after a hard day at school and need to let off steam - unfortunately sometimes this makes them become confrontational and you can, unintentionally, get locked in a battle of wills with them, which doesn't do either side any good. I personally would find the swearing unacceptable - does this just happen sometimes? Could it be testing out playground language to see what you do about it? jay

sorry i deleted my replys on other thread...didnt understand.... i have pm'd u.... we are all here 4 u....xxxxx

Thank you Mrs P but no PM?

Hi thanks to all All I can say is that she used to go to aniother school where she was bullied at 3 1/2 yrs and it hasn't stopped since. i am not saying she is perfect. the nursery schoolteachers went up the infants school and told them it was this other girl. i think this had stayed in her mind perhaps, maybe?? juliex

Janet Perhaps it is my fault aswell cos she had a hearing prob (now has gromits) so I had to shout to make her hear me, and have not got out of this and she will do nothing even is i ask nicely. Perhaps i have made a rod for my own back?? Julliex

Don't blame yourself...................everxxx

Hi Just found messages and thank you to all. Please I hope not Purple and I can,t think of anyone. but will remember what you have said thankyou. Juliex

Hi to Mrs Presley He was georgeous wasn't he? I like him too! Unfortunately I do think its me, cos she is brought up the way i brought her up, and i didn;t think she was spoilt, although she has no dad, nans, grandads. uncles. aunties. relatives etc but when she says someone has hit her i believe it, i normally can tell but as it happens so often-why?? and why always to her?? Juliex

did she lie that someone had hit her??......... PS.he's mine!!lol(if he were alive of course)lolxx

Hi Mrs P She is not normally a liar which is what my problem is!! By the way he isn't dead and he's living with me he he!! we wish!!