General Chat

sean you are a good boy.LOLxxxxxxxxxxxxxx(:

I'm with the majority - definately wrong. I believe in monogamy (and have a great game by the same name!). One man is definately enough for me! Jack x

kaylene sean is a member so if he wants to ask it i cannot see the harmxxxxxx(:

You can never build happiness on someone else's hurt - it is like building a house of sand. Ann

kaylene i suggest you copmplain to abuse manager thenxxxxxxx(:

Sean do you differenciate between affairs and one night stands???? i would never condon either, but sometimes they are the first sympton that something is wrong. not everybody finds it easy to discuss their feelings even with a partner, and if they know what they have to say will possibly hurt their partner, they may procrastinate. time ticks on, they become even more unhappy, and do something that will take 'the decision', as it were, out of their hands. i don't think i could ever forgive an affair or a one night stand, but i would certainly want to explore the reasons why it happened. Bev

Sean, Why would you think it is alright to have an affair.? If the "shoe was on the other foot," you would be devestated. In my opinion it is wrong and unforgivable! Lindy;-)))

kaylene I'm with Lisa on this one. Seans entitled to ask the question - maybe he wasn't a member last week when it was discussed. With respect, no ones getting hot under the collar about it apart from you - everyone else is ject expressing their opinion, theres no nastyness. Paul

Affairs are definately wrong, I have been hurt in the past when my ex had an affair, I told him to pack his bags, best thing I could have ever done. Although I admit that I have slept with a few men (not at the same time!) who had girlfriends, although in my defence they had only been with their girlfriends for a few weeks and it was when I was younger, I wouldnt do it now. Karen

Affairs are so wrong---when you get married you stand in front of each other and make vows foresaking all others. We have just found about someone we know whos wife is having an affair.its so difficult because the husband speaks to my husband about his marriage problems.my husband had just confronted the wife and got the story of "he never pays me any attention". their favourite meeting place is the local gym(we just joined,so thats how we found out) and they sit in the corner and are all over each other,it makes me sick. someone will always get hurt