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Hmmmm.....its a bit dangerous living near our Sylvs

I keep getting error today, anyone else?

Is i normal to have corn flowers and poppies still flowering in late Oct....I have and those other flowers are taking over the garden!

Ace..........

"Is i normal"


You really want me to answer that Gins??????






From not knowing what I was doing today my day has been organised - by everyone else...........sigh........when will I learn to say NO.???

Slap for Cyns..............

Anyone heard from Renes??

Is she still in Blackpool and is she having a good tme ???

Dea Xxx

I am being taken out, wined and dined by my last group of college students tonight....

....I reckon, it might not be a nice Italian with fine wine, more likely a burger and too many beers!

Still its really nice of them to take me out to say thank you...ah

Where is everyone else today?

That's nice Ginns - I am sure you will enjoy it !!!

Dea Xxx

I have just received a letter from a well known 'energy Company' to say that they are sending my information to an 'External Debt Collection Agency' because I have failed to pay a £9.49 debt owed by my recently deceased brother !!!!

Don't worry - I have written the cheque and composed a 'suitable' letter to go along with it !!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;-)

'Bar Stewards' - the lot of them !!!

Dea Xxx

So if you are the next of kin to someone are you expected to pay all there debts off?

If so I better get divorced before they let estranged husband have a credit card again :-D

ja...x

Legally Ginns, if you are next of kin and you can prove that they have no money in 'their estate' (which my brother didn't), you are not expected to pay it, but, if the deceased did, then you have to go to Probate which takes ages!!! (If the person had no will), and then you have to sort out all the creditors from 'the estate' - Very complex and not worth getting nto for the sake of £9.49 !!!

You DO need to think though, in your situation - you don't want any hassle if he 'pops orf' !!

Dea Xxx

I doubt whether he would have any real debts at the moment, but I dont want to pay for his funeral unless I have too

ja...x

I think you meant Ja..x!

We paid off moms bits and pieces when she shuffled off.....just felt it was the right thing to do

But Ja..x..........................divorce him ;-)

Now I'd willingly pay for ex's funeral, the sooner the better!

Now what is that saying?

Ah now I remember:

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Never been 'scorned' Jonesey.......been ripped off for a few grand and some but hey ho

Everything happens for a reason :-D

Yes - I did mean Jax, Ginns - Sorry !!!

There are such a lot of SCREAMING Fireworks going off outside that I can't think straight - they keep making me jump!! and it's not even Bonfire Night yet !!!

Dea Xxx

5th Nov seems a good day to start divorce proceedings. I did mention to youngest I was thinking of doing it...and did she mind? Her answer was "Well dad said he would never marry ***** anyway" so does that mean she wants us to stay married?

ja...x

One thought you might consider Ja....x is that if you were to 'pop orf' - he would be entitled to all you have, as next of kin!!

You might prefer it to go to your daughters, or someone else???

Dea Xxx

I know Dea thats what I have been thinking for ages. I had a critical/Life insurance which named my girls as the beneficeries should I pop my clogs. As I claimed ,I have it now though the way things are going it will be gone soon :-D

Then I thought what if his mother dies as she is in her 80s, would he offer me half of what he gets from her estate? (not that I would ever ask for any) My parents are a lot younger but they have more to leave and I would'nt want to give him any.


I must do it soon....I know you can do it online but dont know if its any good

ja...x

Bit tired now Ja....x BUT, I am sure you could make a will which cuts him out and leaves whatever you have to who you want it to go to - He 'may' have the right to contest it though??

If you stay married and he inherits from his parents and then 'pops his clogs' without cutting you out, then you could claim - however, anyone who he is 'attached to', even siblings, might also contest???

Have a think about it,

Dea Xxx